Fear Of Change

What holds us back in our lives is unquestionably: The Possible Consequences! Even though The Possible Consequences haven’t happened, they drive our lives; even though The Possible Consequences might never happen, they drive our lives. So what if The Possible Consequences happen, should we not do what’s important to us?

When considering the possible consequences, such consequences might fall in a range, from loving consequences and peaceful ones to fearful and traumatic consequences.

When considering our own conception: Whatever the circumstances our parents brought on themselves were projected on us by virtue of their maturity or immaturity at the time we were conceived. What they projected on us has bearing on our initial state of being. Note, there is no blame in this presentation, merely the likely facts.

We then carry with us that projected state. Shaping our life from it and again projecting that on our environment and moreover, creating our adulthood conditions based on those we took on early in our lives. Because we take on and wear our environment and circumstances as a reproduction of ourselves, based on a belief about ourselves, and because we don’t like the belief we have of ourselves, we actually live to disprove the belief we have about ourselves. Thus not living naturally as our life was meant.

We then create more circumstances and an environment, based not on truth and on who we really are but from a fear of who we believe we are. This fear-based creation continues until we see the error of our ways and stop. And at first we might not get it right in stopping. It’s not to say just because we want to stop that we’ll get it right. We have to be successful in ending the belief we have of ourselves. In my own case, I’m taking apart the belief, slowly and intentionally.

This is a condition of humankind and its resolution is based on freedom of choice. We can live with the condition or consciously decide no more and switch off the condition by deciding to live freely and based on our freedom of choice.

The possible consequences: – Drive us to do what we’d rather not do. – Drive us not to do what we’d want to do.

Take a self-uncovering journey, where you’ll see a side of yourself that you didn’t know existed. Have a first-hand view of how you run your life based on the possible consequences. You can stop that way of life and live your own life naturally and freely.

Emmanuel van der Meulen is a life awareness coach. He can assist you with overcoming your fears. His free newsletter contains valuable info on living your optimal life.

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